Friday, January 31, 2014

Friends > Lovers

Have you ever felt that certain rush when you are with someone you like? Do you feel that time stands still when you are with him/her? Does that person bring out the best in you? But have you answered this question, does he/she likes you? 

Let’s put it this way, kids these days are somewhat full of affection. When their heart beats a little, they’ll call it love. But what is really love? If you’re gonna ask that to different kinds of people you’ll hear a thousand answers. It is because we have our own perspective about what love is. For me, if you ask what love is I’ll simply answer that love is a positive phenomena experienced by a person to someone or something, it is deep yet easy to understand, high yet easy to reach, wide yet it covers every boundaries of our soul, and long for it never runs short. Let’s take this for example. We've read our Bibles yet no one really understands what Leah has been through all of her life. She has been seeking for love that Jacob can’t give. The pain of having someone there all those years yet never been loved fully by that person. I know some of us have been experiencing this. We've been expecting so much that that person will love us and ends up losing ourselves to him/her, not even leaving a piece of us behind. To think of it, it’s not their fault but ours instead. The problem is we end up assuming things because of their actions. Couldn't it just that they are friendly or is it because you asked for those kinds of signs and ends up thinking that way? Love is a strong word for teenagers like us. There is no definite time, place, or moment for this. You just have to wait for it and not force your way up to find this. You may have already missed a lot of time enjoying your life because you’re busy searching for the right person. God will provide, you just have to learn to trust His ways. 

Ending up with this, if you are troubled by what you feel and is confused if he/she likes you, you could ask that person. Just mutter up the courage to confess your feelings because there is no harm in trying. If that person ignores you and leaves you behind then they lost someone who really cares for them. 

Remember, it’s just a leap of faith for someone to move a mountain.

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